Concentric

Extraversion

Friendliness

How readily you feel warmth toward people and show it.

Why it is measured

Warmth is separable from wanting company — you can like people individually and still not want a room of them.

What a high or low score looks like

High scorers connect easily and make others comfortable. Low scorers are more reserved, which is not the same as cold.

Why it matters

This is one of the facets most likely to depend on who the other person is, which is precisely what a single score cannot show.

The items behind it

Four public-domain statements, answered on a five-point scale. Items marked − are reverse keyed: agreeing with them counts against the trait, which is what stops agreeing with everything from producing a high score.

  • +Make friends easily
  • +Feel comfortable around people
  • -Avoid contacts with others
  • -Keep others at a distance

Four items is not many. A facet measured this way carries real uncertainty, which is why every score on this site is reported as a range rather than a single number.

How this one changes with closeness

This is one of the traits asked four times over — once for each level of closeness, from your inner circle out to strangers. Our prediction for it: steep.

Warmth toward a target is almost definitionally target-dependent.

  • +I warm up quickly to ⟨group⟩.
  • +I make ⟨group⟩ feel at ease.
  • -I keep ⟨group⟩ at a distance.

⟨group⟩ is replaced by each of the four closeness anchors in turn.